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Age Regression General Vocabulary

Age Regression

​ When somebody reverts to a child-like state of mind, often as a coping mechanism for things like PTSD, depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. Age regressors are also referred to as 'Littles'. Age Regression is not strictly for treating mental illnesses. It is a lifestyle and coping mechanism. 

Voluntary Age Regression

 This means that someone can choose and control when they regress. 

Involuntary Age Regression

 When someone cannot control or choose when they regress. This means they could be regressing due to extreme levels of trauma or stress that triggers the regression. 

Age Dreaming/Dreamers

 Littles that do not regress to a headspace, but choose to act like a child/younger age than their age. Some Littles identify with both dreamers and regressors. 

Little Space

A more specific term of headspace. It is the mental mindset of an age regressor. Little Space is an umbrella term, most SFW littles avoid using this term. However, it is valid still if you use it to refer to your SFW littlespace as long as you are comfortable and aware of the crosstag risk! 

Agere/Agedre

Shortened Slang for Age Regression and Age Dreaming 

Caregiver

A person that cares for an age regressor while they’re regressed. The relationship may be platonic or romantic, but never s*xual - at least, while the regressor is regressed. Some regressors call their caregivers “daddy” or “mommy,” because that name reminds them of a loved and comforting person in their life. However, it’s also common for regressors to have other variations and different nicknames.

Petre - Pet Regression

Though this website is for age regression, remember that all regression is valid as long as it is never s*xual! Pet regression is when someone regresses into the headspace of a animal or pet. 

Little Age Range

All littles regress to a younger age, some regress younger or older than others. This is the age range. Some regressors have only one age they regress to, others often change their age depending on the state they're in or why they are regressing. Ex. 1-3, 3-6, 4-7, etc. etc. 

Non-Verbal

A term for when age regressors regress to an age or headspace in which they can not speak, or speak coherently. I.e. Infant - 2 regressors are commonly non-verbal. 

Sibbies / Sibs

Often other age regressors who an age regressor considers their sibling/best friend. 

Babysitting

Babysitting in the agere community is a person who gives willing & temporary care for a little in the absence or by consent of the CG and/or Little. 

Crosstagging

The mixing of SFW and NSFW tags on social media and other platforms. 

Non Com

A term someone uses to explain that they are not part of any specific community whether online or IRL. 

Half Regression / Middle Space 

When an age regressor is stuck between mindsets. Their headspaces share both their bigspace and littlespace simultaneously. (Middle Space can also refer to age regressors that regress to child or preteen ages) 

DNI

An abbreviation of "Do Not Interact". Some littles, or anyone in general, can not see or read certain topics or want to associate with certain communities because it is either triggering to their trauma or makes them upset or uncomfortable. DNI's should always be respected. 

TW

Short for "Trigger Warning". This means the content or subject is something that could be potentially harmful to others especially those who experience mental illness, trauma, abuse, or negative experiences with certain things. There are many triggers in the world for every person, and it's important to keep that in mind. 

Little Gear

Little gear is anything that a little used that is for their little space, helps them regress, or is an adult version a child/baby toy. You do not have to own little gear, little gear is optional, and not having little gear is completely valid! Gear includes (but isn't limited to) Adult pacifiers, teethers, toys often associated with stimming or fidget toys, bottles, sippy cups, diapers, onesies, stuffies, blankies, cribs, crayons, highchairs, and so much more! Please also note that you do not have to be a little or a part of the agere community to use any of these things! 

If you think I missed any..

Any terms you know, that aren't listed above as you think they should, let me know! I will always be more than willing to add on to this educational information! 

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Little Speak

Often Age regressors will speak like their age range, using baby-talk to communicate to others around them unless they are non-verbal. Some littles do not speak in baby-talk or little speak. However, here's some definitions; could be helpful to the confused CGs out there! 

Sippy - A bottle or toddler cup that usually has a lid/plastic nip/straw. Some come with a no spillage feature.

Paci/Dummy/Binkie - Pacifier. Many regressors use pacis to regress. The use of Paci's stims and helps littles focus or channel their emotions. Be sure to get an adult sized paci for your little, as a baby pacifier could harm their adult teeth! 

Baba - Baby Bottle, usually with a rubber nip to drink from. 

Diapee/Diap/Dip - A Diapers. Not all age regressors wear them, some choose to use them for their function, others wear them to regress or enjoy the soft comfort.

Stuffie - A stuffed plushies typically of an animal form. These provide comfort not only to littles- but to anyone! 

Blankie - Usually a special blanket, more than likely travel sized, that regressors use as a soother or comfort item. 

Uppies - When a little wants to be lifted or picked up, this word will usually come about- sometimes accompanied by out stretched arms, grabby hands, and small hops. 

If you think I missed any..

Any terms you know, that aren't listed above as you think they should, let me know! I will always be more than willing to add on to this educational information! 

Common Terms Littles Use

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Addressing Age Regression

The Basic Explanation of Age Regression

There is a lot of negative stigma attached to age regression and it can be difficult at times to ignore the negative comments, but to all all that are hurt by it or receive such hate remember that age regression is a perfectly normal and healthy coping mechanism and anyone who can’t understand that isn't worth your time. Your little space is special and it’s a part of you that no one can take away from you, there are always people there that will understand and accept you for who you are. 

Age regression is when somebody reverts to a child-like state of mind, often as a coping mechanism for things like PTSD, depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. Being in a "little space" for littles, is a time to take away the anxieties, stresses, or a time to relax or have fun. Regressing is a form of a person trying to treat and deal with their emotions, trauma, or illnesses. Again, some Age regressors do not have trauma, age regression can also be something someone simply enjoys as a lifestyle or hobby. These people simply need breaks from the stress of being an adult and often (but not always) have a childish personality even outside of regression. Licensed Doctors and Therapists have and do suggest, encourage, and verified age regression as a healthy therapeutic method to deal with mental illnesses or trauma, especially that which is associated with childhood


Contrary to popular belief, age regression is NOT a k!nk or even related to s*xualization whatsoever. Some age regressors refer to themselves as littles and to their significant other as a chosen nickname, or just as their "Caregiver" Since they'd typically take care of their "Little" as if they're an actual child. At no point does a Little or Caregiver have s*xual relations or thoughts about one another s*xually in their headspaces.. In short, when a little is regressed, they are in a child/infant mindset and should be treated as such when regressed. 

Adult Littles are allowed to participate in adult activities outside of regression. They are still a legally functioning adult outside of regression (unless the situation calls otherwise). They are allowed to live their life however they see fit as long as they're following legality, not harming others, and being kind to themselves. Adult littles outside of regression are allowed to participate in *responsible* legal dr!nking, legal sm*king (if they choose to), legal (CONSENSUAL!!) s*x, just as they are expected to perform other adult duties. Being an age regressor, DOES NOT mean you are banned from NSFW outside of regression. Having said that, s*xual conduct should NEVER happen DURING or around a age regressor whilst in their headspace. S*xualizing littles is not only triggering for them, but it is also inappropriate, disgusting, and a VERY BIG NO-NO

Age regression therapy encourages you to access and relive your memories by reverting to a younger state of mind. It can be self-induced or induced by a hypnotist or therapist. This practice can be done to explore childhood memories, relieve stress through escapism, or access hidden memories, bring suppressed trauma to the surface to relive and properly address, and aspects of your personality. Different psychiatrists have had varying notions about the purpose of age regression. You can use age regression to address a variety of issues, although using it in certain circumstances can be controversial. This practice can be done in a clinical setting or by yourself as a form of self-help.

Age regression can be used in clinical therapy to help you move on from trauma. By encouraging you to look back at your childhood memories, you and your therapist can work together to overcome trauma and painful experiences. Proponents of age regression therapy believe that by talking about them, you will be able to free yourself from the past. You can also practice age regression by yourself to block out the stress of adult life. As a form of self-help, practicing age regression at home can bring back great childhood memories of a time when you felt secure and cared for.

People with a history of trauma may be more likely to regress. In fact, age regression may be common in people who have been diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder (DID), a disorder formerly known as multiple personality disorder. People with this disorder frequently have a younger personality among their distinctive personalities. However, it’s believed that the “little” may not be a separate personality. Instead, it may be a regressed version of the original personality. In other words, the person with DID may be aware of everything, but they feel like they’re a different age. They may talk like a child or begin behaving like one. In other instances, the “little” is entirely separateIn this case, age regression is a form of security against fear or insecurity. This type of age regression may be triggered by particular events or stressors.

There’s no inherent risk in age regression. If you practice it as a form of self-help or relaxation, you may want to make sure you’re in a safe place and around people who understand this technique. For others, age regression may be intentional. Some individuals may select reverting to a younger state as a means to block out stress and worry. They can also revert to a younger age so they can work through tough issues or personal problems. As a form of self-help, age regression may help you revert to a time in your life when you felt loved, cared for, and secure. In that sense, this can be a positive experience. However, age regression may be a sign of a larger mental health issue. You should speak with a mental health care provider about evaluations, or therapy for potential mental illnesses.

In any case, Age regression should not be shunned by society, or by anyone. It is a healthy coping mechanisms with a lot of pros and helpful techniques to help littles live and be happy. Age regressors deserve happiness and to live how they choose, and every one deserves to choose a healthy coping mechanism. After all age regression is far more safer and healthier than any harmful or negative coping mechanism. 

If you want to learn more..

Scroll down to 'Resources' and you'll find links to other helpful and informational articles, links, and videos! 

TW: K!NK MENTIONS, NSFW MENTIONS

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DO NOT READ IF NSFW MENTIONS TRIGGER YOU. This section is simply to show what IS AGERE terms, and what are NOT AGERE terms. It's also to educate on what is appropriate for the Age Regression community, and what doesn't belong within the Agere community. THESE TERMS HAVE NSFW MENTIONS! 

ABDL: “Adult baby diaper lover.” This is a k!nk/fet!sh where an adult wears diapers and acts like a baby. It is s*xual. This does NOT belong in the AGERE community. 

AGEPLAY: a k!nk where someone pretends to be a child, and someone else pretends to care for them. It is s3xual. This does NOT belong in the AGERE community.

BDSM: "Bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism.” is a k!nk/fet!sh where consenting adults engage in dominant/submissive roles. It is always s*xual. This does NOT belong in the AGERE community.

DDLG/B: “Daddy dom, little girl/boy.” a branch of BDSM - where the daddy is the dominant, and the little is the submissive. It is always s*xual. This does NOT belong in the AGERE community.

MDLG/B: “Mommy dom, little girl/boy.” It’s a k!nk where the mommy is the dominant, and the little is the submissive. It is always s*xual. This does NOT belong in the AGERE community.

PETPLAY: It’s a k!nk where someone pretends to be a pet or other animal, and someone else pretends to care for them. It is always s*xual. This does NOT belong in the AGERE community.

CGXAGERE: “Caregiver x Age Regressor.” a caregiver and an age regressor. Gender Neutral Term. This IS an AGERE term.

MXLG/B: “Mommy x little girl/boy.” a mommy is the caregiver for an age regressor. The “x” is used instead of the “d” to get rid of the “dominant”, and therefore ridding of it of its NSFW and k!nk affiliations. This is never s*xual. This IS an AGERE term.

DXLG/B: “Daddy X little girl/boy.” It’s when a daddy is the caregiver for an age regressor. The “x” is used instead of the “d” to get rid of the “dominant” part of it, therefore ridding of it of its NSFW and k!nk affiliations. This is never s*xual. This IS an AGERE term.

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